Parent & Caregiver Resources
Parents Are Important
Parents and guardians are the #1 influence on the lives of children and youth. That’s why the Wilmington Coalition for a Healthy Community (WCHC) works to help parents and families stay informed and get connected with community resources
Are you worried your child might be abusing substances?
Use of alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs can put your child at risk by causing changes to your child’s brain. Over time, this can lead to addiction and other harmful consequences.
As a parent/guardian or caregiver, you have some of the best insights into what is normal for your child and should be on the lookout for important changes. If your child has started using drugs, you might notice a dramatic change in your child’s clothing styles, hairstyle or general appearance. Maybe they are hanging out with a new group of friends you don’t know much about. Maybe they just doesn’t look healthy or well. Pay attention for signs of substance abuse:
Signs of Substance Abuse
✓ Finding evidence of drugs and/or drug paraphernalia among your child’s possessions
✓ Unwelcome changes in behavior and falling grades at school
✓ Hostility and irritability; reduced cooperation at home
✓ Child’s life seems overly influenced by peers
✓ Decreased interest in personal appearance
✓ Child seems emotionally distant, unusually tired, or depressed
✓ Physical changes such as bloodshot eyes, frequent sore throats, runny nose, and rapid weight loss (Widely dilated pupils of the eye—even in bright light; pinpoint pupils even in dim light)
✓ Catching the youth in lying or sensing he/she is hiding information about his/her activities or whereabouts
✓ Child complains of dizziness or seems to have trouble remembering things
✓ Changes in mood, eating or sleeping patterns
✓ Unusual odors on breath (alcohol, inhalants, marijuana) and attempts to cover that up (mouthwash, mints, gum, etc.)
✓ Unusual efforts to remove or mask odors from the bedroom, including keeping the window open, even in winter; use of deodorizers or incense; damp towels frequently found where door meets the floor)
Drug-tesing kits are also available at our office, as well as information on Family support groups such as the HERO Foundation and The Meadows Outpatient Center.
Support & Resources
It can be very upsetting to realize your child is abusing drugs, but it is important to respond with love, concern and prompt action. The Partnership to End Addiction recommends a step-by-step process, which is explained on their website.
To get information about local agencies that provide treatment to youth for substance use disorders, you can contact the Wilmington Coalition office at 815-476-1660. Drug-testing kits are also available from WCHC. Family support groups are also available, with the closest meeting in New Lenox through the HERO Foundation
Operation Parent believes prevention begins at home through open, honest conversations between parents and kids. We equip and empower parents with the tools, knowledge, and community they need to guide their children with confidence. Through expert-led webinars and trusted Parent Handbooks, we make it easier for families to stay informed, connected, and safe.
